Rising to the Top

It's nice to view life through a spiritual lens; it takes some of the edge off life.
What's interesting is that a spiritual perspective often reveals how our ‘truths’ are counter-intuitive. Life's genuine priorities and values are often the opposite of what they appear.

I think about that as I watch my Chanukah Menorah, with its flames illuminating my consciousness. Last night we lit one flame; it was the beacon in our homes, spreading the message of spiritual values and moral clarity. Each night we’ll welcome a new flame, while also celebrating the flames of the previous nights. This nightly pattern will guide us to a crescendo of eight burning flames on the [eighth and] final night of Chanukah.

Each night, the newest light takes center stage; so every light has its night of special attention.

Except for one.

Aside from the Menorah’s eight candles, every Menorah also has a ninth candle, which isn’t celebrated or given too much attention. We call it the “Shamash” or “servant” candle. That’s the candle – usually placed at the Menorah’s top  – which we use to light the Menorah’s flame.

The Shamash isn’t a candle of celebration; it’s a flame of function.  It’s not a flame that shouts spirituality, perseverance or commitment to values. It’s a flame that simply helps the others proclaim their respective message.

Its purpose is to serve.

So why does the Shamash typically rise above the others? Doesn’t that seem incompatible with the “servant” character?

The Rebbe once explained this as a lesson in how we lead our lives:

Leaders, by definition, show others the way; they pro-actively guide affairs. Leadership isn’t typically a low-profile activity; it’s a ‘marquee’ position.

Torah leadership runs in the other direction. It’s about selfless surrender to values and selfless service to others.  

We’re all leaders in lives, in the way we make life-choices and influence those around us.

When we rise above our shallow egos – what we want - and commit ourselves to service – what we’re needed for – we are ready for leadership.

Hence the Shamash candle. Humble in function, dedicated to others' brilliance and flare, it ultimately rises to the top.

True honor finds people when they’re looking in the other direction