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Making Our Days Count

Thursday, 15 April, 2010 - 8:14 am

How quickly can you recall – with some specificity - what you did yesterday? Sure, you can probably do it, but how long will it take you?
How about last Wednesday?
If you're like me, you spend a lot of energy responding to responsibilities of the moment, while stressing (at least a bit) about things yet to come. This makes most of life in the rear-view mirror meld into a blur, one hour virtually indistinguishable from another, one day running into the next.
Yes, we're managing; but life should be more than staying afloat.
What to do?
Chassidic thought encourages us to pro-actively take charge of our time and imbue each hour with meaning, making sure that our days really count.
Humdrum, un-spectacular, hours just fade into the past.

So let’s make our time remarkable.

Chassidic though suggests an attitude called 'counting hours'.
Think of your next hour as a vessel waiting to be filled. It’s morally neutral, and you get to choose how it will be used.
If you make this hour’s character special, the hour will become significant; it’ll live on.
It’s possible for a day or hour’s special events to make it an outstanding slice of time, a time too distinct to just blend in to life’s blur.
But it’s about more than memory.

After all, what if you learned an important life-lesson years ago, yet can’t remember the hour and day during which you learned the lesson? Does that really matter? Doesn’t that day live on with you, since its content echoes into your present life?
If my days are meaningfully spent, I’ll know it. Life will feel full, and it won't matter whether I can remember exactly what I did at noon last Tuesday.
If you consciously recognize this next hour as an hour during which you are fulfilling G-d's intent in your creation - whether you spend it working to provide for your family or reading something inspiring on Chabad.org - you have done something remarkable. You have pro-actively chosen to make this hour a vehicle for purposeful living; you will have aligned your life with G-d’s intent in creating you.

While it may not be apparent to the onlooker, you’ve filled your hour with Eternal Meaning.

Can time be any better spent?

Comments on: Making Our Days Count
4/15/2010

Michael Seth wrote...

Shalom Rabbi Mendy, I appreciate your blog post very much. To answer the question it poses: today I will attend the Tea Party rally in NYC, for many reasons, but primarily to rally support for the State of Israel. (I will also march in the Israel Day parade in NYC next month.) My counter-question: what are you and your congregants doing in this regard? I suspect most of of your congregation voted for our anti-Semite president (I know for a fact that at least one member did so, not out of malice, but ignorance.) Is "anti-Semite" too strong a term? - not if one has been paying attention. Given current events, especially those of the past couple of weeks, is there any more urgent responsibility? I appreciate that your role is ideally apolitical but this is obviously an emergency situation. As we have just remembered the Shoah, I ask you, what have you done to inform and inspire your congregants to action? I implore you to EDUCATE your flock on this issue. To paraphrase a great Rebbe, "These are uncomfortable questions for comfortable Jews." Please feel free to contact me for any info I might provide. I take "Never Again" very seriously. I sincerely hope my fellow American Jews will do so as well. (As an aside, my hopelessly liberal and ignorant family members have been put on notice: Despite my very calm and persistant efforts to educate them, they remain "shtetl" Jews, slaves to a political party that is now actively hostile to Israel, despite its rhetoric. I have informed them that I can no longer celebrate Jewish holidays with them until they "see the light." I say again, I have acted to make my hours and days "count". Can you say the same? Respectfully yours, Michael Seth
4/16/2010

Michael Seth wrote...

Rabbi Mendy, thank you for your thoughtful response! I would like to reply to your point concerning the "anti-Semite" label. I used the term in this context very carefully. Please recall who our President is: a man who spent 20 years in the pews of Jeremiah Wright's "church". ( I hope we can agree that Wright is an anti-Semite!) Wright also performed Obama's marriage and baptized his children. On top of all of Wright's previous anti-Semitic comments, when he was recently asked if he'd spoken to Obama since the inauguration, Wright responded, "Those Jews ain't gonna let me talk to him." That remark was widely reported. Obama made not a single comment on it. Rabbi Mendy, language is crucial in this fight. (Please note how careful Obama is to avoid, or worse, scrub references to Islamism, jihadism, and even terrorism from official remarks and policy. If we can't be honest with our words, we will only further hamstring ourselves in the future. Once again, thank you for your thoughts! I look forward to your future writings. Shalom.
4/16/2010

Mendy wrote...

Michael,
I think that J Wright's words and actions indicate an anti-semitic sentiment. So I feel perfectly reasonable in assuming that the man is an anti-semite.
To take this a step further: In my mind, only a man to whom anti-semitism isn't strongly repellent could sit in JW's pews for 20 years.
Is it a logical assumption that said man is himself an anti-semite? Not to me.
But it does tell you about his level of sensitivity, or lack thereof.
By way of analogy: Would socializing a childhood buddy who has grown into a racist necessarily mean that YOU are a racist? Not necessarily, in my book.
But I would be able to safely assume that racism isn't overwhelmingly odious to you.
See my point? I think it's a distinction WITH a difference.
4/16/2010

Michael Seth wrote...

Rabbi Mendy, I believe your analolgy to be seriously flawed. Of course if Obama had once known a non-racist/non-anti-Semitic Wright and then had dinner with him 20 years later, with no significant contact in between, no reasonable person would say that such conduct makes Obama an anti-Semite. However, the reality is that Wright was a rabid anti-Semite ever since Obama met him. He was an anti-Semite when Obama chose him as a MENTOR, to preside over his marriage and childrens' baptisms, and no doubt, continues to admires him today. To my mind, that is proof beyond any reasonable doubt that Obama shares Wright's anti-Semitism. I believe your analogy would fit for former President Bill Clinton, who should not be considered a racist vis a vis his close relationship with William Fulbright, the former segregationist. Wright and Obama had/have a totally different history and relationship. Shabbat Shalom!
4/22/2010

Mendy wrote...

Michael,
I see your point. A the same time, I find the willing association with, and elevation of, Wright to be proof of Obama's comfort with anti-Semites - which is certainly enough reason for me not to vote for him - not (in my mind) enough basis for giving him that label.