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Kicking It Up A Notch

Thursday, 7 May, 2009 - 9:32 am

I assume it’s a pretty common scenario.

Somebody's walking life’s path, oblivious to his own benign neglect, when suddenly...boom! He hits his 'brick wall'.

Maybe it’s a family member or an accountant, perhaps a client or an employer; somebody perceives the truth and yells “Stop! This can't continue; something needs to change.”

It’s an unpleasant, jarring disruption to life's rhythm.

It’s also an important wake-up call. And even though it’s painful, the stress can serve as productive energy, propelling us out of our rhythm’s gravitational pull.

In a way, that’s the Passover story.

Simply put: The Jews were slaves in Egypt, Moses dislodged them from their captivity and our ancestors escaped “in haste”.

It’s also a personal story: We each have our own ‘Egypt’ - our own counter-productive cycles.

When we’re fortunate, our ‘Moses’ – our soul-conscience, or perhaps a spouse or business associate – points out our negative patterns. The recognition hurts, but we can channel the pain so that it chases us – catapults us - to a better place.

In Passover language: We are impelled to urgently ‘leave Egypt in haste”.

Actually, the word ‘Pass-Over’ [also] refers to the liberating leap from a spiritually constricted life to a visionary, conscious one.

But what about the times when I’m not escaping an Egypt? When things are just ‘normal’? When I feel no friction and face no brick walls?

Then, we face a different danger: Complacency.

When I feel that I’m on a good path, I’m more likely to put my life on auto-pilot.

I can relax; after all, if I’m not being chased, why run?

Because.

Because when I’m on ‘auto-pilot’, I float along life’s current, without the initiative to go quicker than the stream.

Because when I’m on ‘auto-pilot’, I’m without the quickened pulse, without the butterflies in my stomach, that accompany a quantum leap forward.

G-d expects more, and my life deserves more.

We shouldn’t only grow to escape the pain, we should grow because we have great potential and a beautiful destiny.

So the Torah gives me a new exercise: It’s called ‘The Second Passover’ (‘Pesach Sheini’ in Hebrew) and it’s about finding the strength to ‘Pass-Over’, to leap forward in my life even when I’m comfortable where I am.

It’s about me taking the opportunity to consider where my life is going RIGHT, and finding the strength, vision and humility to make go even MORE RIGHT.

This Friday, Iyar 14/May 8, is Pesach Sheini.

Have a piece of Matzah (Matzah is a primary Liberation tool, in that it embodies the humility that we need for authentic growth).

Then focus on a growth-objective. Pass-Over your own inertia, and meet your potential.

Because finding Freedom isn’t only about leaving captivity; it’s about taking a leap forward.

 

Comments on: Kicking It Up A Notch
5/7/2009

Michael Seth wrote...

Rabbi Mendi, you state that G-d expects more of us than complacency. One of the reasons I am an atheist (although an ardent Zionist who would gladly live in Israel if it were a Torah state rather than a suicidal liberal democracy), is that I would expect more from G-d than complacency. Many have argued to me that G-d's complacency is simply the gift of free will. I pose the following question: If a parent let a toddler play near a hot stove, should that parent be praised for allowing the child to exercise its free will, or condemned for not properly caring for the parent's own creation? It seems to me that G-d owes such a flawed and vulnerable creation such as Man more than mere complacency.
5/8/2009

Moshe wrote...

Sorry, but you just wouldn't be an atheist if you looked a little deeper into this world than just pondering over your very minute basic question. There are answers that we may know or not,
but just look around and try denying it! You won't suceed.
5/8/2009

Michael Seth wrote...

Rabbi Mendy, (I apologize for previously misspelling your name!) I appreciate your comments very much. I think you have identified one of the differences in our worldviews very well. I do think that prayer is very valuable to those who believe. In fact, I think very few, if any, cultures can survive a majority of atheists. I envy those that have achieved a sincere belief in a guiding moral force. Personally, I am left to struggle with my view that while a creator/supernatural intelligence may exist, if it is truly all-powerful, it must therefore be seen as indifferent to the suffering of all sentient innocents at best, and thoroughly sadistic at worst.
As I also said, if Israel were a true Torah state, I would move there immediately, although for practical reasons rather than purely religious ones. I think an Israel complacent in secular humanism is obviously doomed (and soon.) Again, thank you for your thoughts - I look forward to reading your future articles.

As for Moshe, I guess I'll just have to concede that his depth is beyond my humble grasp.